# nolabels.love

> nolabels.love is a personal, openly shared collection (German/English) of tools, links, books, glossary notes and events around non-monogamy, polyamory and relationship anarchy. The author sorts what they are currently exploring and makes it freely available to the community — a resource list, not an advice guide or counseling service.

- Every page exists in German (/de/, default) and English (/en/); `/` redirects to `/de/`.
- Main tool: an interactive Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord board (https://nolabels.love/tools/board/app/). Users rate 179 relationship elements per person on two separate dimensions — status and desire — compare two people in a match view, and share profiles via file or QR code.
- Privacy: the board runs entirely in the browser (localStorage). No account, no server-side storage, no tracking. QR shares put the data in the URL fragment (after #), which browsers never send to a server.
- The board is based on the Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord (v6) by Lyrica Lawrence & Heather Orr, updated by Maxx Hill, licensed CC BY-NC-SA 4.0; German labels follow the translation by Rachel Cassandra.
- All tools and content are free to use, without registration.
- Source code is public: https://github.com/robinboehm/nolabels.love

## Pages (English)

- [Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy & Non-Monogamy](https://nolabels.love/en/): This is where I collect and sort what I'm currently exploring around non-monogamy, polyamory and relationship anarchy — tools, links, books, terms and events. Free to browse, take and pass on.
- [FAQ — Frequently asked questions](https://nolabels.love/en/faq/): Answers to frequently asked questions about nolabels.love, the Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord board, and polyamory, relationship anarchy and non-monogamy.
- [Tools](https://nolabels.love/en/tools/): Interactive tools around relationships beyond labels — so far the Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord as a board.
- [Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord](https://nolabels.love/en/tools/board/): Rate status and desire for 179 relationship elements, compare two boards in a match view, and share results via QR code — entirely local in the browser.
- [Resources](https://nolabels.love/en/ressourcen/): An open collection of articles and guides about non-monogamy, polyamory and relationship anarchy.
- [Books](https://nolabels.love/en/buecher/): Books on non-monogamy, polyamory and relationship anarchy — each with its cover and a short note on what it's about.
- [Glossary](https://nolabels.love/en/glossar/): Terms around non-monogamy, polyamory and relationship anarchy — with short notes on how they're commonly used.
- [Events & Meetups](https://nolabels.love/en/events/): Parties, meetups and events like Temple Nights — including Telegram groups and websites.
- [Coaching & Courses](https://nolabels.love/en/coaching/): An idea for later: formats for sharing experiences and accompanying each other around relationships beyond labels.

## Seiten (Deutsch)

- [Polyamorie, Relationship Anarchy & Non-Monogamie](https://nolabels.love/de/): Hier sammle und sortiere ich, womit ich mich gerade rund um Non-Monogamie, Polyamorie und Relationship Anarchy beschäftige — Tools, Links, Bücher, Begriffe und Events. Frei zum Stöbern, Mitnehmen und Weitergeben.
- [FAQ — Häufige Fragen](https://nolabels.love/de/faq/): Antworten auf häufige Fragen zu nolabels.love, dem Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord Board sowie zu Polyamorie, Relationship Anarchy und Non-Monogamie.
- [Tools](https://nolabels.love/de/tools/): Interaktive Tools rund um Beziehungen jenseits von Labels — bisher das Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord als Board.
- [Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord](https://nolabels.love/de/tools/board/): Bewerte Status und Wunsch für 179 Beziehungs-Elemente, vergleiche zwei Boards im Match und teile Ergebnisse per QR-Code — alles rein lokal im Browser.
- [Ressourcen](https://nolabels.love/de/ressourcen/): Eine offene Linksammlung mit Artikeln und Guides rund um Non-Monogamie, Polyamorie und Relationship Anarchy.
- [Bücher](https://nolabels.love/de/buecher/): Bücher zu Non-Monogamie, Polyamorie und Relationship Anarchy — jeweils mit Cover und einer kurzen Notiz, worum es geht.
- [Glossar](https://nolabels.love/de/glossar/): Begriffe rund um Non-Monogamie, Polyamorie und Relationship Anarchy — mit kurzen Notizen, wie sie meist verwendet werden.
- [Events & Meetups](https://nolabels.love/de/events/): Parties, Meetups und Events wie Temple Nights — inklusive Telegram-Gruppen und Webseiten.
- [Coachings & Kurse](https://nolabels.love/de/coaching/): Eine Idee für später: Formate zum gemeinsamen Austausch und zur Begleitung rund um Beziehungen jenseits von Labels.

## Optional

- [Full content as plain text](https://nolabels.love/llms-full.txt): every page's content (FAQ, glossary, books, resources, tools) in English and German
- [Board app](https://nolabels.love/tools/board/app/): the interactive tool itself (client-side app, its own DE/EN toggle)
- [Sitemap](https://nolabels.love/sitemap-index.xml)
- [Source code](https://github.com/robinboehm/nolabels.love)