Tool
Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord
The Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord is a list of 179 possible components of a relationship — from finances to communication to intimacy. I built it as an interactive board: for each item you can note how it currently is (status) and how you'd like it to be (desire).
Match comparison
Two people can each fill out a profile independently and then see side by side where desire and perception line up and where they don't.
Share via QR code
A profile can be handed straight to a second phone via QR code — the data lives entirely inside the code itself, no server ever sees any of it.
Data stays local
Everything is stored locally in the browser only (localStorage). There's no account, no server and no tracking — export/import (as a file or QR code) is the only way data moves.
Categories and items are based on the Relationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord (v6) by Lyrica Lawrence & Heather Orr, updated by Maxx Hill — licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 4.0.